Jacqui Shaw
I feel truly lucky to be able to study jujutsu, especially in this dojo with
Sensei Vu and his many talented students. When I was younger, there was a lot
of conflict in my life and I thought that training in a martial art might make
me (and people I know) safer. I searched really hard, over many years, for a
martial art, a sensei and a dojo I would enjoy training with, but it wasn;t
that easy! Unfortunately, a few (but certainly not all) of the places I went to
were actually hostile to women joining, which surprised me. Others were much
too soft on female students -- it felt like the story of Goldilocks and the
three bears! Meanwhile, I had lots of 'interesting' self-defense
experiences, either while travelling or in Canada: violence seemed to be
universal, affecting so many people... They say that when you are ready, the
right teacher will appear --now I look back, I guess this was true for me too.
Earlier, without experiencing certain self-defense situations, I might not have
been motivated to make it to class regularly, to endure some discomfort, and to
focus on the material. Even as a white belt, jujutsu has changed me and how I
relate to the world so fundamentally for the better that it's hard to believe
I am the same person! I may not be able to change the way the world is, but at
least I can keep working to improve my own small corner of it, and encourage
others to do the same.